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Tag: Justice

  • Unity: Loving the Differences

    I am inspired by Senator Cory Booker’s record-breaking 25-hour senate speech that took place from Monday to Tuesday.  As I tuned in to watch Senator Booker’s impassioned talk, I was struck by his call for unity.  He specifically emphasized that the problems which Americans are facing are, “not right or left, but right or wrong.”  I agree that division in our country is being caused by problems that are a matter of good vs. evil, and are not a matter of Republican vs. Democrat.  In fact, Senator Booker repeatedly spoke about his desire to work in a bipartisan way.  I firmly believe in an America where political leaders can join for the good of the people, the nation, and the Constitution, without letting party loyalty cloud their judgement. 

    The issues I have with the Trump administration are, in fact, issues of morality, and not politics.  Specifically, many of my issues with the current leadership involve my belief that they are acting in a way that expressly goes against the teachings of the Bible.  Jesus in his ministry welcomed the poor, the ostracized, the immigrant, the sick, the widowed, the homeless, the disabled, and the sick.  Donald Trump does not care about anyone in these categories.  All the current president’s policies attack those that the Bible supports.  I call myself a progressive Christian, and as such, I can not support those in power who are attacking all my beliefs.  I must peacefully resist.

    However, this strong opinion of mine raises an interesting dilemma: do I then also not support my friends who are Trump followers?  I indeed have many friends and acquaintances who are much more conservative politically than I am, and I know many voted for Trump in the presidential race in November 2024.  How do I reconcile my moral compass and my values as a progressive Christian with my social circles?  Well, what would Jesus do?  Again, I must turn to the Bible for guidance. 

    A verse from the Bible App caught my eye, “Dear friends, since God so loved us, we also ought to love one another.” 1 John 4:11.  I must love those whom God puts in my life.  Jesus’ gospel is about love.  Jesus constantly shared love with everyone He met.  The quote from 1 John is a reminder of God’s desire for Christians to be a loving presence in a broken and fallen world.  Loving others is not easy, especially when there are differences of opinion.  But I am determined to rise to the challenge of loving those I disagree with, because God is calling me to do so. 

    Coming full-circle to Senator Booker’s speech, I want to emphasize that a spirit of unity, and a commitment to love, does not mean that I condone evil.  The Trump administration is enacting some truly evil policies, and I will let my pen and my vote speak for me.  I will follow my values system and my conscience when I make decisions about my life and my actions.  But I must constantly persevere with an attitude of compassion, empathy, and respect for my fellow Americans, despite which political party they belong to. 

    America is being tested.  Can we respond to the threat on our Constitution and our laws?  Can we protect the most vulnerable populations that live in this great country?  Are we truly the land of the free?  We must answer this crossroads moment in history with a resounding cry of unity and love for all, and a defense of all we hold dear for who we are as a nation.  In contrast, an approach of division and hate will only bring about our downfall.  Please join me in advocating for what is just and fair, whether you are on the right or the left side, let us be together on the American side.

    With Justice, G.

  • Laws Off My Body!

    Today on The Ladybug, I want to talk about another controversial topic: Sex and birth control.  As a 38-year-old woman, I have decided not to have children.  I feel confident, happy, and secure in my resolve to not be a mother.  My life is about many joys and goals, but being a parent is not one of them.  This decision was not made because I hate children, but instead, simply because I know myself well, and I know that motherhood is not for me.  Being a mother is an important and glorious role, but one that I have never aspired to achieve.  With that said, I deeply respect my friends who are mothers, and I have a loving and wonderful relationship with my own Mom.  Being child-free is a personal decision, and I am convinced that it is the most appropriate path for my life. 

                Now, the big question: Can I have sex just for the enjoyment if my intention is never to have a child?  For those of you who are not religious, this may seem like a silly question.  However, I bring this topic up for discussion because of the rise in the USA in popularity and political power of conservative Christians.  You may also know them as Christian Nationalists.  Many conservative Christians are of the belief that sex should only be for the creation of children.  Therefore, following their logic, any form of birth control should be outlawed.  Women should not have the power over their own bodies to say, “Yes, I want sex.  And, no, I do not want kids.”  Am I out of line in assuming that this is the belief that is threatening me?  I think not.  Birth control pills are called, “abortion pills,” by some conservative believers.  The problem develops when Christians become powerful in the government, and begin to make their religious preferences law. 

                If you believe that I am over-reacting, then may I remind you that Roe v. Wade was overturned in 2022, and that abortions are now no longer protected by the Constitution.  In many states where Christian Nationalists have gained positions in government, abortion is becoming illegal again.  Birth control is the next target.  I am here to say, “Laws off my body!  This is my decision!”  Let me be very clear: I believe that every woman has the right to decide how to express her own sexuality and for what purpose.  If I want to have an active sex life, while not having children, then that is my call.  Stay away from my birth control options.  This includes the full spectrum of birth control, such as IUD’s, the pill, the shot, and, yes, abortion.  The right is mine.  The decision should not be taken away from me because a conservative Christian in congress wants his wife, “barefoot and pregnant.”  If you think this is not happening, then you would be wrong.  For example, Elon Musk has a large brood of children with many different women.  His belief is that women are for baby making, and re-populating the white race, which supports his wrong white-supremacist thinking. 

                I am currently reading Margaret Atwood’s controversial novel The Handmaid’s Tale.  I believe that if women do not raise their voices and take a stand, we will soon find ourselves strictly controlled by the patriarchy.  In the novel, handmaids are for one purpose: to have children.  In addition, bearing children is seen as the only reason for women’s existence.  While reading, I feel suffocated and suppressed, just like the women in the book.  They have no voice and no choices.  Let me be clear that in 2025, women still have choices.  But those choices are fading quickly while we watch our reproductive rights disappear.  Let our voices not be silent now.  There are organizations such as The Women’s March and Planned Parenthood Action which take a stand and fight for the rights of all females in this country.  It is time to take to the streets in protest.  Do not let what you can do with your body be dictated by a man.  I saw a great meme online about The Handmaid’s Tale, and it said that the book is meant to be fiction, not an instruction manual for men to suppress women.  I could not agree more! 

                I do not want to see a dystopian future for women in the USA.  We need freedom and equality.  We need to speak now!  Do not let men in power, such as Trump or Musk, dictate our lives.  I am legitimately terrified that bans on abortion and birth control are just the beginning.  And this woman, will not conform.  Instead, I will resist.  I am inspired by many greats that have gone before me, such as the notorious RBG.  Let us not forget her legacy of dissent.  Let us make her proud!  My body, my choice.  I encourage every woman reading this to evaluate the meaning of choice to you, and to decide that it is worth fighting for. 

                With Resistance, G.

    PS I have linked The Women’s March and Planned Parenthood Action Below.  Check them out!  In addition, feel free to share resources of your own in the comments.  Thank you!

    Women’s March – Our Feminist Future – Women’s March

    Planned Parenthood Action Fund

  • Love Thy Neighbors: Immigrants

    I have a question to ask: Why must we all be white?  The core of white supremacy seems to me to be a belief that white people should dominate and control.  A belief that only people of European dissent with pale skin tones should be valued and respected.  I am certain that this belief is wrong.  There is a feeling in my core that white supremacy is evil and dangerous.  In addition, white supremacy in the USA is incredibly hypocritical.  Native Americans were the original founders of the country, and the Puritans from England were the immigrants.  So, why is it that white people in America have turned on immigrants?!  Is our collective memory so short-sited?  Have we all forgotten what we learned in history class in school?

                The Trump administration which has taken over the country again has rolled out decisive action against immigrants, which I find sickening.  President Trump himself is a white supremacist.  He does not seem to be able to tolerate anyone different from himself.  The way that America is currently treating immigrants is a crime against humanity.  We are all beloved children of God.  We all matter and should be valued, regardless of our skin tone or ethnic background.  Separating families and tearing children away from their caregivers, simply because they are trying to find a better life on our soil, is inhumane.  We have a short memory, and seem to have forgotten all about the statue of liberty welcoming immigrants to our nation for decades past.  Why is there so much hate?

                Immigrants in the USA also play an important role economically.  It is foolish to deport them.  Immigrants work long hours at jobs that white people hold up their noses at.  They pick watermelons in fields and work in factories.  They are tax paying contributors.  Besides the financial implications and work place roles that should be considered, immigrants also bring a richness to the diversity in our culture.  When I was in third grade, I learned about America being described as a melting pot.  The community was made stronger by having many different cultural traditions present.  Let us not forget the beauty of inclusion. 

                The Bible also has many things to say about accepting our neighbors.  Since the conservative Republicans in Congress like to quote Leviticus for justifying their laws, I will quote Leviticus as well.  “When a foreigner resides among you in your land, do not mistreat them.  The foreigner residing among you must be treated as your native-born.  Love them as yourself, for you were foreigners in Egypt.  I am the Lord your God.”  Leviticus 19: 33-34.  The Lord is instructing His people as to how to care for foreigners, because they themselves had at one time suffered as outcasts in Egypt.  How quickly we forget.  This passage always reminds me that God’s law is one of acceptance and love. 

    But, why stop with the Biblical quotes there?  I would also like to include Jesus’ famous quote on loving our neighbors.  The story is from the Gospel of Matthew, when Jesus is asked which commandment is the most important.  Jesus replies, “‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’ This is the first and greatest commandment.  And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments.”  Matthew 22: 37-40.  Clearly, the criminal treatment of immigrants is not an act of loving them as ourselves.  Separating families, and endangering children, and violently rounding up people, and destroying lives is not loving.  What would Jesus think of these actions, according to His instructions in the Bible?

                America should be finding ways to streamline paths to legal immigration, and developing better avenues to welcome refugees into our countries.  We should not be building walls to keep anyone non-white and different out of our borders.  It is not only inhumane, as I stated earlier, but it goes against the Christian principles set out in the Bible.  White supremacy is inherently evil, and I am afraid of what it will ultimately lead to in this country.  I am determined to work to stop this spread of injustice.  Welcome the foreigner and love your neighbor, even if, and perhaps especially when, they are different from yourself.  Deporting honest immigrants and terrorizing refugees are terribly wrong actions, and they go against the history of our nation.  Take time today to consider your own principles in your heart, and decide which side of history you will be on.  I hope you choose love, compassion, justice, and inclusive action.

                                        In Resistance, G.

  • Reading For Justice

    Book Review Series

    As the 2nd presidency of Donald Trump gets under way, I have felt horrified at his racist and prejudice actions.  I feel powerless to stop the upsetting news headlines I read daily about Trump’s policies on immigration, the environment, and democracy, to name only a few.  However, I have decided that knowledge is power.  I am therefore entering a period of reading for justice.  By that I mean, reading books that will educate me on the very subjects that Donald Trump is attacking.  Since 2020, I have been purposefully reading more books written by Black authors about the experiences of African Americans and the deep-rooted racism in our country.  I will continue this endeavor, while also adding other books to the mix, such as ones on women’s rights and homelessness.  I will be posting book reviews on The Ladybug of each book for justice that I read to stay accountable. I begin this series on The Ladybug with a book review that I did for The United Women of Faith of The Methodist Church that I wrote back in early 2023.  The chosen book for the review was The Hate U Give, By: Angie Thomas.  I have read this book twice, and plan to read it again, as it thoroughly rocked my world and provided me with a new perspective on Black lives in the USA.  I highly suggest that everybody read this book!!  I have included below an exact copy of the book review I presented in February 2023 to kick us off!  I encourage everyone to read for justice.  Remember, knowledge is power!!

    Gaelle McLoud

    United Methodist Women

    The Hate U Give

                Hello, Good Evening.  Before I begin my review of The Hate U Give, I believe that it is important to note that this novel was written by an African American woman, Angie Thomas, about issues concerning race relations, and I hope that I do her amazing book justice.  I believe that issues of race and ethnicity are important for all of God’s people, regardless of your skin color or background, because we are all sharing this planet and need to help each other thrive and live in peace.  However, with that said, I believe that the experience of Black Americans is important for white people to study and understand, because they have suffered throughout history as a minority that is trampled on by others in power.  I have learned a lot about myself and my own personal biases through reading this novel and others by Black authors.  Please keep an open mind and heart as you hear about the life of 16-year-old Starr Carter.

    The Hate U Give is a coming of age story about a young African American 16-year-old adolescent girl named Starr.  Starr has grown up in a rough area known as Garden Heights, but attends school in the suburbs at a wealthy mostly-white private school.  Starr feels conflicted about who she is at home compared to who she is at school, including time spent with her white boyfriend, because she feels tourn in two pieces by the different worlds.  This feeling is put into overdrive when she witnesses one of her best childhood friends get murdered by a white cop on the way home from a Garden Heights party one night.

    The young Black adolescent’s name is Khalil, and he drives Starr home from a Garden Heights party one evening.  The car is stopped by a middle-aged white cop who notices that the car’s taillight is out.  The cop is aggressive with Khalil and begins to search him.  Khalil turns around to ask Starr if she is alright, and the cop shoots Khalil in the back, 3 times, killing him instantly.  Starr is horrified and this incident becomes a defining moment in her life.  Khalil was un-armed, not carrying drugs, and was not threatening the cop in any way.  His killing was a tragedy.

    This sad incident is the beginning scene of the novel.  The remainder of the book is about the inner struggle that Starr goes through as she tries to understand what happened and how she should react.  To quote the novel, as told through Starr’s voice, “I’ve seen it happen over and over again: a Black person gets killed just for being Black, and all hell breaks loose…I always said that if I saw it happen to somebody, I would have the loudest voice, making sure the world knew what went down.  Now I am that person, and I’m too afraid to speak” (34-35).

    Thankfully for Starr, she has a very supportive family.  Her father is a former drug dealer who got out of the business when Starr was a baby, and her mother is a nurse.  She has two brothers as well, one younger, one older.  Starr is not comfortable at first telling her friends about the truth of the evening, that she was the witness of the murder, when the story is first aired on the TV news.  As the novel progresses, Starr finds her voice, and testifies for the DA in a trial of the officer who shot Khalil.  However, the officer ends up being let off with no consequences.  Starr finds consequences in her personal life once the story becomes public, and looses one of her high school friends over the conflict.  Starr’s boyfriend, Chris, remains supportive. Starr finally says the truth to those who doubt her: The truth that her friend Kahlil was a good person who didn’t deserve to die, the truth that his life mattered.  Black Lives Matter.

    Finally, I want to address the title of the book.  It is taken from an old Tupac song (he’s a rapper), and is discussed in the novel by Starr and her father Maverick.  To quote the book again: “The Hate U Give Little Infants F**** Everybody (Thug Life).  Khalil said it’s about what society feeds us as youth and how it comes back and bites them later…I think it’s about more than youth though.  I think it’s about us period.  Black people, minorities, poor people.  Everybody at the bottom of society” (168).   

    The question that I asked myself after reading this book was “what is the hate that I give?”  Are there groups of people that I am prejudiced against?  What are my true feelings about Black people and all minority groups?  These are certainly uncomfortable questions, but important ones.  Jesus calls us to love our neighbors as ourselves.  Are we displaying that love to the world?  Are we giving hate or love?  I suggest this book to everybody as a deep read and as a very thought provoking read.  It helped me to enter a whole new world and examine myself closely.

    God Bless.

  • Trump vs. King

    Thoughts on This Day in History

    Today is inauguration day, and Donald Trump has been sworn in as president of the United States for his second term.  To say that I have strong emotions on this occasion would be an understatement.  I voted for Harris to become president, and I still firmly believe that our country would be in much more capable hands had she been elected.  Why did I not vote for Trump?  Simply stated: I do not trust him.  He is a convicted criminal, a rapist, a consistent racist and homophobic speaker, not to mention a failed business man. In addition, I am convinced that Trump only acts in ways that benefit himself, not the American people.  When I voted for Clinton in the 2016 election, my belief was that our nation would be tarnished by a Trump presidency, and I currently believe that it will be again.  The argument used so frequently by my Trump supporting friends that grocery prices will drop once Trump takes office is not something that I can agree with.  I will be very surprised if prices end up miraculously dropping under the next Trump reign, in fact, I am expecting prices to rise further.  Life is going to become very chaotic.  I do not think that those who voted for Trump realize yet what they have gotten our country into.  Trump is a fascist.  The attacks on the Capitol on January 6th demonstrate that he does not support democracy.  Personally, I am terrified about how he will attempt to change our nation over the next 4 years.

                Today is, also, Martin Luther King, Jr. Day.  It seems a cruel joke that Trump gets sworn in on a holiday commemorating such an incredible person as Dr. King.  I do not have adequate words to express my admiration for Dr. King and his legacy.  My focus, therefore, has been on the importance of this holiday, and all that it means for peaceful resistance and civil rights.  I will peacefully resist the Trump presidency as best I can by writing my opinions on The Ladybug or by engaging in intelligent conversation with those willing to listen.  I must humbly follow Dr. King’s example as best I can. 

    In honor of this intent, I would like to share a piece of writing by: President Linda Thompson, DrPH, MPH, DNP (hc), RN, FAAN of Westfield State University, where I attend classes.  This excerpt is from a school email regarding Martin Luther King, Jr. Day:

                “Dear Campus Community:

    On Monday, January 20, Westfield State University will be closed to honor the legacy of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. 

    Written on the Martin Luther King, Jr., memorial in Washington, D.C., are the following words from a speech he gave at the March for Integrated Schools in April 1959: “Make a career of humanity. Commit yourself to the noble struggle for equal rights. You will make a better person of yourself, a greater nation of your country, and a finer world to live in.” 

     These words are a timeless reminder that we all have a role to play in developing a compassionate, caring, and understanding society that respects, appreciates, and values all members. While we often spend time focusing on our cultural differences, on this day, and every day, we should take time to understand the similarities that make us human. Distancing ourselves from our own needs and acting to serve the needs of others represents the human spirit in its finest form.”

                I am honored to attend a university with these core values.  On this difficult day in our great nation’s history, when Trump is made president again, let us instead focus on what we can control: our own actions for justice and peace. 

                Keep Persevering, G.